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Se urwaye cyane akeneye guhinduka mubipapuro byabantu bakuru, kandi umukobwa "tegereza": kwita kubitandukaniro hagati yabagabo nabagore?Jamaica Imashini yimyenda yimyenda

Se urwaye cyane akeneye guhinduka mubipapuro byabantu bakuru, kandi umukobwa "tegereza": kwita kubitandukaniro hagati yabagabo nabagore?Jamaica Imashini yimyenda yimyenda

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Itandukaniro riri hagati y’abagabo n’abagore ryavuzwe ahantu henshi, cyane cyane mu rwego rwo gutuma abakobwa batekereza ubwabo.Ndetse n'abavandimwe, ndetse na ba se, bisaba kumva intera runaka.Ku ruhande rumwe, irashobora gutuma abakobwa bakura neza, kurundi ruhande, irashobora kugabanya ibibanza bya "Electra" mubakobwa, kandi bizafasha no mubucuti nubukwe.

Nyamara, buri kintu kigomba kugira impamvu n'ingaruka, ni ukuvuga ko tugomba kwita ku itandukaniro riri hagati y'abagabo n'abagore, ariko ntitugomba kwita ku itandukaniro riri hagati y'abagabo n'abagore.Kurugero, inshuti yanjye Xiaomin, umuforomo mubitaro, akenshi agomba kuvugana nabarwayi babagabo., ndetse nibice bimwe byihariye byumurwayi.Niba undi muntu afatwa nkumugabo aho kuba umurwayi wubuvuzi muri iki gihe, noneho akazi ntikuzakorwa neza, kandi ntazaba n'umuforomo ubishoboye.

Aya magambo afite ukuri mubikorwa, kandi afite ukuri mubuzima.

Ntabwo hashize igihe kinini, nabonye videwo ngufi kuri Weibo.Ibiriho ni uko se ugeze mu za bukuru kandi urembye cyane yamugaye mu buriri, adashobora kwiyitaho, kandi yari akeneye ubufasha bw'abandi kugira ngo arangize.Kubijyanye nisuku yumuntu ku giti cye, papa nawe yambara impuzu zikuze, nubwo byoroshye, ariko mugihe cyizuba, bigomba gusimburwa kenshi, bitabaye ibyo ntibizorohewe cyane.

Uwo munsi umukobwa muto ni we witaye kuri se ushaje.Biragaragara kuri videwo ko umusaza yari aryamye ku buriri ntashobora kugenda, ariko ubwenge bwe bwari bugaragara neza.Ingofero hepfo yarakinguwe ku mfuruka, kandi yari yambaye impuzu zikuze muri iki gihe, kandi ikibazo muri iki gihe ni uko se yari akeneye undi mushya, ariko umukobwa yagize isoni zo kubisimbuza se kubera “itandukaniro riri hagati. abagabo n'abagore ”, nuko abwira se ati:“ Ah, ibi, sinshobora kubisimbuza nawe. ”

Kandi ibi nabyo biteye isoni cyane kuri se, ntiyishura, hanyuma umukobwa abaza igitekerezo cya se aramubaza ati: "Urashobora guhinduka?"Se ntiyigeze avuga, ariko ukurikije imvugo yari afite mu maso, ntibyari byoroshye.Gusa sinzi niba bitoroheye umukobwa wanjye guhindura impapuro, cyangwa impuzu yambaye kurubu?

Umukobwa rero yahise asubiza ati: “Noneho ntuhindure, itegereza.”Igihe umuhungu mukuru wa se yahageraga ni bwo yamuhinduye bundi bushya.

Ibi byabaye byakuruye abantu benshi.Ku bijyanye n’imyitwarire y’umukobwa we wo kwita ku “itandukaniro rishingiye ku gitsina” muri iki gihe, abantu “babaye umwami” baravuze bati: So yaba yarahinduye ikariso yawe ukiri umwana?Kugira ubwogero?Noneho biratangiye kuba indyarya.

Kandi "imyifatire" y'abagore netenen yabwiraga murumuna we uburambe bwo kwita kuri nyina ushaje: mama amaze imyaka ibiri aryamye, kandi murumuna wanjye niwe wamwitayeho.Nagiyeyo rimwe, kandi igihe cyose nagiye, mama yari afite isuku cyane kandi agashya, kandi murumuna wanjye ahanini yakoraga akazi ko koga, kandi muramu wanjye ahanini ntiyigeze amfasha, kandi niba ntabitekerezaga. ,, ntabwo nagira isoni.

Nubwo ntazi niba videwo ari impamo cyangwa atari yo, kuri papa ugeze mu za bukuru kandi urwaye cyane, guhindura impapuro mubyukuri ni ibintu byoroshye.Ariko, duhereye kubintu bidafite ishingiro niho dushobora kubona imitima yabantu, kamere muntu, nicyo kubaha Imana no kubaha Imana.

Mu magambo make, ababyeyi bakeneye abana babo kubitaho nibasaza.Ibi ni kimwe no kuba abana bakeneye ababyeyi babo kubitaho bakiri bato kandi batazi.Muri icyo gihe, ababyeyi nta tandukaniro bari bafite hagati y'abagabo n'abagore ku bana babo, kandi ntibabakundaga.Noneho abana ntibagomba kugira abagabo nabagore nibakura.Itandukaniro, cyangwa kudakunda ibyiyumvo byababyeyi, erega, "Nakureze ngo ukure, uramperekeza ngo gusaze", iyi niyo nzitizi itera ababyeyi nabana bagomba kugira.

Byongeye kandi, se ararembye cyane, kandi umukobwa akeneye kwitabwaho neza iyo ari kumwe na we.Wari ukwiye kuba witeguye kubi mbere yo kuza, bitabaye ibyo, kwita kuri se bisobanura iki?Nukuvuga gusa no kurangiza amazi?

Icyo mbona mubibazo byumugore ntabwo ari ipfunwe ry "itandukaniro riri hagati yabagabo nabagore", ahubwo ni agahinda ko "nta muhungu wa filial mbere yigitanda igihe kirekire".Niba ukunda so rwose, ntihazabura gushidikanya muriki kibazo, mugihe cyose se ashobora kwemererwa guhumurizwa, ubwo rero ubuzima bwaba butoroshye kandi bunaniza, ntabwo arikibazo.

Mubyukuri, abantu bamwe bavuze ko bishoboka cyane ko se ashaka icyubahiro kandi ntashaka ko umukobwa we akora ibyo bintu.Igihe numvise iyi mpamvu, reaction yanjye yambere yari kure.Birashoboka ko se ashobora kubitekerezaho.Ariko, nkumwana ubyara, niba ashobora gukora ibi bintu wenyine, noneho kumva umunezero bigomba kuba birenze isoni.Ubu bwoko bwo kunyurwa imbere n'ibyishimo birenze ibyongeweho n'amagambo meza.Ubu bwoko bwo kubaha filial nabwo data akeneye cyane muriki gihe.

Gukura k'umuntu birashobora rwose kuba ikibazo mumwanya muto, mubisanzwe iyo uwo ukunda arwaye, kuburyo umuhungu utagize icyo akora ahinduka umugabo wenyine, naho umukobwa woroshye nkamazi aba inkingi we irashobora kwishingikiriza.. ubwoko bw'ubushyuhe n'ubushyuhe.

Imbere y'ababyeyi bacu, nta tandukaniro riri hagati y'abagabo n'abagore, kandi nta soni.Ni bene wacu b'amaraso bonyine, kandi turi abana babo bonyine ku isi.Mugihe bagifite ubuzima bwiza, barusheho gushishoza kandi ukomeze ubuzima bwabo igihe kirekire, kandi niyo uburwayi nabwo bugira uruhare rwo kuba umwana.Ntutegereze kugeza ubuze byose ukabyicuza.Noneho biratinze.


Igihe cyo kohereza: Kanama-10-2022